His wake was strange to me. I kept touching him. He felt plastic. I kept touching his face. Grandma yelled at me because I touched his face so much, someone had to come and reapply his make up.
The day of the funeral, I got it. As my Grandma bent over to kiss his lips one last time, and they shut that coffin, I got it. Only then was I upset. To this day, it's the worst part of any funeral for me. Watching the coffin close.
I think of my grandfather fondly, all of the time. We share stories of him every holiday. The same ones usually, and usually involving my grandma. The two together were characters. I was the youngest grandchild of his 11, and I only got 10 short years with him. Just 10. I would have loved for him to be at all of my graduations, and of course, my wedding, to meet the man I chose to marry. That proud smirk on his face. But I feel lucky to have had him in my life as long as I did, and for the fact that I am blessed with a memory of an elephant and remember lots about him. He was a lovely, lovely, sweet man and is missed by all of his family greatly.
Reading to Rachael and I, I still have this book and consider it one of my most treasured possessions. |
"Chicken in the car, the car can go, that's how you spell Chicago!"
Gus
4/1/1910- 10/26/1993
Glad you have so many great memories of your grandpa! I was tearing up about mine at my cousin's wedding this weekend. I was 10 when he passed away too. And I need to know, what's the book? My grandpa gave me Little Women for my first Christmas. My mom thought he was crazy to buy that for a 3 mo old, but it's one of my most treasured possessions too.
ReplyDeleteAwww... my book we are reading in the picture is Little Wheels, Big Wheels. Not quite Little Women material.
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